The men I know in real life came to visit me in my dream. He came to my home and kissed me, made love to me in the dream. In the dream I thought we would get married but he declined.
Dreams about people we know in real life can represent aspects of ourselves or our own thoughts and feelings. The fact that this man in your dream kissed you and made love to you may indicate a desire for intimacy or a romantic connection with him. However, the part where he declines to marry you might indicate a fear of commitment or rejection from this person in real life.
Alternatively, the dream might not be specifically about this person but rather a symbol for something or someone you desire in your waking life but cannot have. Consider if there are any goals or aspirations that you are pursuing but feel limited or rejected in some way.
It's important to keep in mind that dreams are open to interpretation and can have multiple meanings. Reflect on how this dream makes you feel and what personal significance it may hold for you.